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Episode “Nice guys“

Andrea: We often hear that nice guys finish last, today I will share why do not think that is true in dating.  I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating.
Do nice guys finish first in dating?
Man on street: If you are a bad guy you can probably get more sex.
Woman on street: I personally would rather go for a nice guy than a jerk.
Woman on street: Nice guys, I don’t know when they’re too nice I think we think maybe they are a wimp.  And dangerous situations we think maybe they’re not going to be man enough to standup.
Man on street: You don’t get any love being the nice guy.
Woman on street: Knowing from personal experience bad boys are the ones that I’m attracted to, unfortunately.
Man on street: Personal experience, it is the bad guy but I like to think that the nice guy can come out on top every once in awhile.
Man on street: Nice guys do not typically finish first because I think that bad guys just give a little bit more spice or a little bit more personality to the situation.
Andrea: I met a guy recently who told me he had it all figured out, women like bad boys and he is just too nice.  Sorry guys but not entirely true, I am here to debunk the nice guy myth.  Here is a little secret nice Gals, like nice guys.  While women mean when they say they are not attracted to nice guys is that they are not attracted to boring ones.  There not attracted to guys with no opinions and no interest outside of her, so they are not attracted to doormats and pushovers.  But nice guys and boring are not synonymous and I will tell you why.
A healthy an emotionally intelligent woman, the kind of woman a nice guy is going to want to be with is attracted to a guy who is kind and generous.  This nice guy also happens to have a active social life and he has a air of mystery, he is not hanging on her every word.  When he is around he is always respectful, considerate and thoughtful.  Now these are words synonymous with nice.
In fact in the book social intelligence best-selling author Daniel Goleman says that our brains are actually hardwired to connect with a partner that is kind and I conducted a very unscientific poll last week with some great girlfriends and here are some reasons why they like nice guys.
Because you can picture them behind the wheel of a minivan.  Because you feel the most like yourself with him.  Because nice guys support your decisions and look out for you.  Because they are mature reliable and generous and there’s nothing sexier than that.  Finally because the bad boy appeal of a not so nice guy wears off really fast.
If you are not landing dates and you think it is because you’re too nice make sure it is not another reason like being too needy or too shy, but being likable is a wonderful quality and one that none of us take for granted.  Bottom line guys don’t believe the hype that women want to be with jerks, some do but those are not the women that you want to be within anyway.  So guys be nice to the women that you want to date, be nice to their friends and family, be nice to the wait staff because I will tell you at the beginning of dating a new person these things really matter.  Your niceness may actually be the quality that lands you more dates with the woman that you like.
Thanks for watching On Dating and remember even a bad date makes a great story so get out there and always have fun,  I am Andrea Syrtash, see you next time.

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Episode “Mistakes women make”

Andrea: On an earlier show I featured the biggest mistakes men make in dating and now it is our turn, say tuned for the five biggest mistakes women make in dating, I am Andrea Syrtash, and this is On Dating.

What are the biggest mistakes women make in dating?

Woman on street: The biggest mistakes women make when dating is trusting the wrong guy. 
Man on Street: Having terribly high standards. 
Woman on street: Not accepting a man for who he is. 
Man on street: I think a lot of girls sort of lead on a little bit.
Woman on street: They are too needy and too clingy. 
Man on street: They ask there guy to be engulfed in them and their friends. 
Woman on street: Thinking guys read their minds is probably the biggest mistake women make. 
Woman on street: They call to much the men, they are too available. 

Andrea: I know some women who are baffled when a guy doesn’t call and book another date. Yes dating can be a mystery but there are some mistakes that a woman can make that may explain why some guys don’t call again. According to men I have spoken to the biggest mistakes women make in dating are:
Women are too critical and negative. 
Women talk too much. 
Women are too high maintenance. 
Women are insecure. 
Women come on to strong. 

Women are too critical and negative, no one wants to date a nag, so stop complaining about how much dating stinks and how many guys suck. Don’t try to change the guy and tell him how he should act or what he should do; it is ok to challenge a guy without criticizing him. Remember mist guys want to date a woman with a god attitude and an open mind. 
Women talk too much, it is exhausting to go out with a woman who barely takes a breath between sentences. Stop going on and on about your job, you’re ex boyfriend, or how annoying one of your girlfriends is. A few guys want the play by play of what you did today. Remember slow down, and take a breath, ask him a few questions and listen. 
Women are too high maintenance, I once knew a gal who thought that $1200 purses would attract more men to her. I don’t know how many guys are into these things and I actually think the average guy doesn’t know the difference between a Prada purse and the Chinatown special. I think guys who know you are dressed in designer everything may get scared off. Women if your hair is too perfectly quaffed and your wearing tons of makeup you make look like you just cant have fun, let loose, and be touched and that is certainly not the message you want to send to a guy you like. 
Women are too insecure, dating can be nerve-racking, and I totally get that it wakes up some insecurities, but as much as you can remember to smile and make eye contact, you will already appear more comfortable. Don’t talk about how fat you feel and don’t talk about your faults or how many guys have dumped you it is just not that attractive. 
And finally women come on too strong. Ever see the movie how to loose a guy in ten days? Watch it again; don’t talk about how cute your kids will be the wedding colors you love, and don’t start baking him cakes and buying him sweaters right away. Planning your next twenty years together is really not attractive at the beginning of dating a new person. Remember some mystery is good. The good news is we all make mistakes in dating and it helps to remember you are not alone. Just remember not to commit any of these dating mistakes and you will all ready be ahead in the dating game. 
Remember even a bad date makes a great story so get out there and have always have fun,  I am Andrea Syrtash and see you next time. 
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Episode “First date jitters”

Andrea Syrtash: I am no dating Dr., but I do know that sweating, queasiness, and dry mouth are not good symptoms to have before a first date.  Stay tuned for the five best ways to get over your first date jitters, I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating.
How do you get over first date jitters?
Man on Street: You just go, you show up and you smile, you face the fear that is how you get over first date jitters.
Man on Street: How do you get over first date jitters?
Woman on Street: I don’t know you were pretty nervous.
Woman on Street: I go to a place that is comfortable for me and probably talk about things with friends before hand.
Man on Street: It is always going to be awkward, and there’s always going to be nerves but if you are smart about how you set it up then it helps a lot.
Woman on Street: So if I’m already comfortable in the environment then I am a lot more comfortable talking to a person.
Man on Street: I think I would probably order a bottle of wine right away, or a shot of tequila.
Your date is here, you have been dreaming about it and dreading it at the same time, if you’re like a lot of daters your nerves get the best of you on a first date, with then I always say it but let me remind you a gain, dating should be fun.  If you’re not feeling confident or sexy on a date then people can sniff it, so keep these five steps in mind on how to get over your first date jitters.
Be curious, worry less about impressing your date and let your date impress you.  People notice when you notice them, one of the most attractive qualities that you can have on a first date is to genuinely be interested in the person that you are on the date with.  There is no need to conduct 20 questions or a job interview, but a few specific questions about his and her interest is a good place to start.
Do an activity together.  It can be nerve wracking to sit across from someone and have an hour or two conversation, so suggest going for a walk, playing pool, work and other public activity.  It will be easier to communicate when you have something else to focus on, and doing a public activity will probably lead to a better day anyway.
Find common ground, what brought you together in the first place?  Did you meet at a bar, did you meet through friends?  What ever brought you together is an obvious jumping point for conversation.  Keep it light and positive on the first date.  If you met online do not say, ugh I hate online dating as you’re jumping point for conversation better to say something like, I love what you said about skydiving in your profile, and I am totally scared of it.  What do you love about it?
Bring out your passion, people light up when they talk about things that they are passionate about and passion is a very attractive quality to have on a first date.  I have a friend who insists that his passion for wine is a winner on a first date so he takes his dates to wine bars and wine tasting event so he can really bring out his enthusiasm and his knowledge.
Finally remember that it is just a date, when you’re feeling first date jitters remember that the person was attracted enough to book a date with you in the first place, do not second guess every single little thing that comes out of your mouth.  Remember a date is all about the potential it is about the possibility not the pressure.
So you probably know by now that I truly believe that even a bad date makes a great story so get out there and always have fun, thanks for watching On Dating I am Andrea Syrtash and I’ll see you next time.

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Episode “Booty call”

Andrea Syrtash: You are hooking up with somebody new and things are exciting, but how do you know if you are just a booty call?  Stay tuned for the five clues.  I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating.
How do you know if you are a booty call?
Man on street: It is 10 o'clock at night and you are sober and they are not.  It is 10:15 at night they are gone and you feel filthy.
Woman on street: Well if the guy is only calling you around 2 a.m. on a Saturday night when he is drunk that it is a good chance that he is your booty call.
Woman on street: sometimes I don't think you know that you are a booty call until it actually happens.
Man on street: Yeah I'm going to go with that.
Woman on street: and then it is days later and he does not call and you're wondering why.  That is why.
Woman on street: It is usually on the weekends, maybe late at night and that is the only time that you are hearing from them.
Man on street: If someone just calls you to come over and you do your thing and then that is it, you do not hear from them, then that would be a booty call.
Woman on street: If there is shame the next morning, then you are a booty call.
Andrea Syrtash: To be or not to be a booty call that is the question we will look at today.  For those of you who have been living under a rock and do not know what a booty call is:
A booty call is a telephone call, other communication, or visitation made with the sole intent of engaging in sex with the person being contacted.  There is nothing wrong with having the booty connection was someone as long as you are on the same page.  I have a friend who insists on it and she is not alone.  A lot of women are looking for fun without commitment.
So never assume, that is the first rule of the booty call.  Have a conversation about where you stand and what you are looking for, and if you're too shy to do that just make sure you do not mislead someone into thinking it is something more than it is.  That means no discussions about the future and no pretending that you’re exclusive.
Safety is the second rule of the booty call, if you want to engage in casual sex that is your prerogative but be safe so you do not end up regretting this fun arrangement.  On the flip side how do you know if you are the one who is booty is being called?  Here are the five clues:
You are constantly drunk dialled by your date, these days that also means your text messaged, or sent a drunken email.  You stop by each others homes late at night, usually after other plans had ended.  There is a little lounging around the next day, you wake up and go, brunch out is not an option.  You have not met your booty calls friends or family, except when you stumble over at strange times.  And finally you are rarely invited to activities that do not lead to sex or you are rarely called just to talk.
So I say if you're into the booty call go for a just make sure you do not mislead your self and get attached to a connection that is met to stay between the sheets.  So thanks for watching On Dating and remember even a bad date makes a great story so get out there and always have fun, I am Andrea Syrtash I will see you next time.

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Episode “Breaking up shouldn’t be a breakdown”

Andrea Syrtash: We can't talk about dating on the show without talking about one of the hardest parts of dating, breaking up.  I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating.
Do you think that most breakups you have gone through are a blessing in disguise?
Woman on street: I think that most breakups I have gone through are not a blessing in disguise because I do not like breakup's which is why I do not really date people.
Woman on street: Some of them I think it was good, yes I guess it was the right thing to do because it was not the right person for me in the long run.
Woman on street: Definitely everything in life is a surprise and it is a blessing.  So as you go through it you might think that something is right for you and later on you discover that it is not but the experience you would not trade it but you definitely do not want to be in it again.
Man on street: Well because if I would not have broken up with the girls that I have broken up with before and the chain of what's going on then I would never have met the girl that I'm with now for six years.
Andrea Syrtash: We are on location today at Madison Square Park and we are joined by another relationship expert Lisa Steadman the author of this fantastic book, It is a Break up, not a Breakdown.  Welcome Lisa.
Lisa: Hi, thank you.
Andrea Syrtash: It is good to have you here.
Man on street: Lisa: Thanks in to be here.
Andrea Syrtash: Now I know that this book was born out of a fabulous very popular blog that you started called the breakup chronicles.  Can you tell me more about that?
Lisa: Sure, I started breakupchronicles.com about three years ago, I really wanted to create an online community where people to talk about how breaking up was a positive thing and how it led to different things in life that they may not have experienced had they have gone through with the wrong person.
Andrea Syrtash: So it just sounds like a fabulous community for people to vent, process, share their breakup stories.
Lisa: That is exactly what it is, and it is an amazing place for people to really get their feelings out and really share their experiences and learn from each other as well as from their own experiences.
Andrea Syrtash: Yeah, community, community, and community I always tell clients just to reach out to friends and family and people who can support you during such a hard time.  I know in the book that you talk about the boo-hoo crew, so who is the boo-hoo crew?
Lisa: Your boo-hoo crew is your core group of friends that are really going to help you get through this breakup; it usually is about three people.  They should be friends that can help you commiserate, but can also help remind you why your ex is not good for you, why he is no longer worth pining over.  So boo-hoo crews are really important.
Andrea Syrtash: So Lisa who should be in this boo-hoo crew?  Should it be friends who knew you're ex well should it be other people, what do you suggest?
Lisa: The most important thing when you're taking your boo-hoo crew is to pick friends who really know you who know how to kind of motivate you to get through your breakup and I would not suggest picking people who are close to your ex. Because you do not want them going to your accent saying, oh she had this setback, she is crying all the time.
Andrea Syrtash: Definitely a breakup don’t, which is a great segue into the don'ts, the cardinal breakups in his in your book which I love.  What are some of the ones that you highlight?
Lisa: Well definitely do not spiral out of control with asking yourself why, you know why did this happen, what's going on, what did I do wrong?  Because the truth is you are never going to get those questions answered and you really going to kind of stall your recovery by asking these questions.
Andrea Syrtash: That is a great point.  I think another cardinal breakup sin is saying to your self or your friends, and I've heard this from a lot of clients, it does not make sense we still love each other or it does not make sense I still care for him or her.  That does not mean he should be together right?
Lisa: That is so true I think it is really tempting after a breakup to think that the love is still there so maybe we should reconnect.  Or you know we tend to think that because there is love there should be a relationship, but when you are ending a relationship the love does not automatically disappear.  So it is just really important to make peace with the fact that there may be love still there but it is still time to end the relationship and the relationship is over.
Andrea Syrtash: Lisa thank you so much for coming on today and sharing your amazing insight on getting through a breakup.
Lisa: Thank you so much for having me.
Andrea Syrtash: So thanks for watching On Dating and remember even a bad date makes a great story, so get out there and always have fun.  I am Andrea Syrtash, see you next time.


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Episode “Ask Andrea”

Andrea Syrtash: Everyone who is out there dating has questions about it right? So we thought it was time to take On Dating to the streets and find out what’s on your mind.  Stay tuned for the questions, and my answers. I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating.
I do believe that one of the greatest places to do dating research is in the field, with real daters who have something to say. This ask Andrea segment is an opportunity for me to hear what’s on your mind, and hopefully provide some good advice.  So let’s dive right in.
Man on Street: If I were to ask an expert about dating, it would be how can I get more dates?
Andrea Syrtash: This is a really common question and I get this all the time.  So I think it’s really important to tailor your dating search to you, to your interests, your talents, where you are really comfortable. Not everyone is going to shine at a bar, some people do.  I have a friend who met her husband at a St. Patrick’s Day pub crawl, they clinked beer glasses and that was it. 
 But a lot of people don’t show up well in a bar, they are a little bit more nervous and it’s just not going to be the best place. So if you’re more cerebral a book club, a workshop, a lecture, that might be the best bet for you.  If you are sporty you can join an ultimate Frisbee team, or a coed sports team.  So tailor your dating search to where you’re really comfortable.
Man on Street: I have always been a shake the hand or a hug but I feel like I'm leaving something on the table by not going for a kiss on the first date.  So is it okay to kiss on the first date?  That would be my biggest question.
Andrea Syrtash: So I should preface this one was saying that I think it's actually better if you can, to wait two or three dates to build up some healthy tension and to really assess where you stand.  But I would definitely say that kissing on a first date is OK, especially if you have known the person for a while and you have finally gone out on a date that is a great time.  Or if the night is going on forever and you're laughing, you’re flirting, and you just feel that it is the right moment go for it.
Man on Street: What is the biggest question I have about dating? How do you legalize polygamy?
OK, we debated whether or not this guy was kidding I don't think he is.  So, he is right, polygamy is illegal in this country and I don't think it's going to be legalized anytime soon, just my feeling.  But the good news is there are plenty of ways to open your relationship if you're into that and you and your partner are on the same page.  You don't necessarily have to be monogamous.  You can simply Google polygamy and you'll see all these communities that pop up.  Or swinging is a big thing in this country.  I've heard that 15% of married couples have tried it at one point or another.  So if that appeals to you go for it.
The only thing I can suggest is that if you are going to open up your relationship, make sure you do not do it unilaterally so have an open conversation with your partner and make sure you are on the same page.
So I hope I gave you at least some food for thought, keep those dating questions coming in.  You can post your questions at OnNetworks.com.  And remember even a bad date makes a great story, so get out there and always have fun.  Thanks for watching On Dating, I am Andrea Syrtash, see you next time. 

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Episode “Biggest mistakes men make”

Andrea Syrtash: Dating a new person can be awkward and we all make mistakes.  Hopefully we will learn and do better next time.  In the meantime I'm going to share the five biggest mistakes that men make in dating.  Stay tuned, I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating.  
What's the biggest mistake men make when dating?
Man on Street: Probably giving her too much attention.
The biggest mistake that we make we are dating a female is that we trust them; we take them for their word.  If they say it is a blue we are going to be like oh it is blue but later we find that it is gray.  You know I mean, stuff like that.
Woman on Street: The biggest mistake that men make in dating is taking what the girl says at face value.
Woman on Street: They just start trying to impress you and it is just obvious.
Man on Street: I think the biggest mistake that men make when dating is trying to be someone that they are not.
Woman on Street: They make a lot of mistakes.
Andrea Syrtash: as a journalist I have interviewed a lot of men and women in what they're looking for.  By going straight to the source I think I have done some solid market research in dating.  Today I'm going to share the five mistakes that men making dating, and don't worry guys on a future segment I'm going to share the five biggest mistakes that women make.  So here are the things that female daters complain about.
1.	Men show off or try to impress too much.
2.	Men are famous for the disappearing act.
3.	 Men don't listen to us and we are talking.
4.	Men aren't chivalrous.
5.	Men don't initiate enough.
So let's start off with the first complaint that men show off or try to impress too much.  Don't offer your résumé, you're earning potential, and tell us how you will change our lives the first time you meet is.  Ask women questions instead of talking about yourself the whole time.  And do not come on too strong or be too touchy.  Let us figure out if we are into you instead of telling us that you are.
The second complaint, men are famous for the disappearing act.  I think it is because I lot of guys would rather avoid an uncomfortable situation then face one.  But you are not doing anyone a favor.  If you have dated someone for a while just a FYI, Don’t end up MIA or you will get a bad reputation.  Communication is usually the way to go with a woman.
In the third complaint, which I have heard a lot.  Is that men do not listen to women when they are talking.  I have heard a few comedians talking about the greatest gift a woman can give a man is silence, ouch. Okay it is true that we use too many words, I agree with that.  But we really notice when you stop listening to us, or interrupt us, or ask is the same question again.  I mean you really need to focus on the woman across from you and listen to what she has to say.
And the fourth complaint, men are chivalrous.  Yeah, yeah, we are confusing.  We want you to treat us like equals but we also want you to treat us like women.  It is nice when a man opens the door, or picks up the tab.  It may be old-fashioned but a lot of women report that dating a gentleman matters.
And the fifth thing that women complain about is that men do not initiate enough.  I know that is confusing because no women want you to just rip off the close of their night into you, or be too aggressive.  Dates have gone by and you feel the chemistry is there, and the woman is interested.  In one way you can tell a woman is interested is that she has invited you up to her apartment, where she is letting the date go well into the night.  Well that is the time to make your move and be a bit frisky, and make the woman feel desirable.
Also plan a fantastic day instead of saying I don't know when booking your next get-together.  The bottom line is taken initiative.  Easy right?  I know that we can send mixed messages.  But try not to commit any of these five mistakes and you already be ahead in the dating game.  Remember that even a bad date makes a great story so get out there and always have fun; I am Andrea Syrtash see you next time.



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Episode “Office romances and dating advice.”

Andrea Syrtash: Now there are a number of people who will tell you that it is a big don't to date in the office.  If it does not work out it is going to be totally awkward.  Office mates will get involved, and you'll have to see the person every day.  And then you'll meet people who say go for an office romance; it is so hard to meet people that the office is a great place to make connections.
I thought it would be fun to have a little date debate.  Since there are a number of issues and dating that are not black and white.  Today's date debate is office romance do or don't.  Which side are you on?  I am Andrea Syrtash, and this is on dating.
Would you date someone who you work with?
Man on street: Yeah I think so, yeah.  If she is cool.
Man on street: I would not, not where I work.  It is just asking for trouble.
Man on street: It is not something that I would do.  But I think that love is more important than work.
Woman on street: Dating someone you work with makes going to work on a lot more fun.
Man on street: It is just a big no; anyone with common sense would not do it.
Woman on street: Probably yes, I mean it is the easy way in the city to meet people.
Andrea Syrtash: We are joined today by Krista thinks it is a great thing today in the office.  And Matt: who thinks it is a huge mistake.  So Krista is one of those people that thinks the office is a great place to make connections.
Krista: I do, I think it is a fantastic place.  I mean you spend so much time in the office; you really get to know your coworkers so well.  You get to see how they react to things, and you really just get a sense of who they are.  So why wouldn't you, it is so much better than going out to a bar.  Or just being set up, it is a fantastic place to meet people.
Andrea Syrtash: Fantastic place and I like you are thinking, but Matt you feel differently.  So what are your thoughts on that?
Matt: Just the exact same thing that she said.  You spend so much time there that is exactly the reason why you do not want to essentially, contaminate the place that you spend the bulk of your life at.  Big mistake, do not date in the office.
Andrea Syrtash: Krista do you want to respond to the contamination?
Krista: Well I think that by getting to know your coworker you can really see how they react to things.  So you will know if they're going to be mature if there is a breakup, I think you get a sense of how they will react.  I do not think that it is contaminating the office in any way, if you guys are both adults and can act maturely.  I think you would be OK.
Andrea Syrtash: So Matt, do you think that people can stay adult and mature about this if it does not work out.  I would say that people can be adult and mature when relationships go bad, but you should not count on it.  And that is why you should always think worst-case scenario.  And that is why you should not date in the office.
Andrea Syrtash: Have you had a bad experience?  What has led you to this place?  Tell us about that.
Matt: Well did have a bad experience.  I dated someone super cool in my office, it did not work out, we broke up and that just pretty much, it was like a nuclear reactor meltdown in the office.  You did not want to go there anymore.
Andrea Syrtash: Did everybody get involved?
Matt: Not everybody but they're definitely were, people took sides in that kind of made things weird.
Krista: So Krista what would you say about that?  When people take sides and...
Krista: I think that you should probably be discreet when dating in the office.  I do not think you need to involve all of your office mates.  I mean that just sounds like you are adding your own drama.  I think that you can be mature.  And be quiet about your relationship and if it ends you can act respectfully.
Andrea Syrtash: Have you had a personal experience on the good side of dating in office?
Krista: absolutely, I have met to long-term relationships from the workplace.  They were fantastic and we did not have any problems.  And one of my best friends married her husband who she met at work.  So I think that it is just a really good way to get a sense of who you are getting into a relationship with.
Andrea Syrtash: good points on both sides.  Krista thanks for sharing your perspective, which is a really nice healthy one I think.  And Matt thanks for sharing yours, which can be probably a very realistic one on another level.  So thank you very much for coming in.
Krista: thank you.
Andrea Syrtash: so whether or not you think dating in the office is a good idea.  I do have some dos and don'ts to share with you so that you are smart about it.
1.	Don't blab to the whole office the night you first hook up.  Confide in your friends in the real world.
2.	Figure out if it is a fun role in the hay, or if you see long-term potential.  If it is fun sex, it might not be worth the risk. But if it is looking like a future with your officemate it may be worth exploring.
3.	If it is explicitly stated in your contract office romance is a no, no, ask yourself is it worth losing your job over your crush?  Maybe.
So what do you think?  Weigh in at OnNetworks.com.  And remember even a bad date makes a great story so get out there and have fun.  Thanks for watching on dating, I am Andrea Syrtash see you next time.
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Episode “Picking up at a party”

Andrea Syrtash: One of the best places to meet a potential date is at a social function. Stay tuned for some do’s and don’ts of picking up at a party. I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating.
What’s your best pickup line?
Man on street: Yeah it is really cheesy but, do you come here often?
Man on street: Yeah it sounds cheesy, but do you come here often?
Man on street: You are so pretty can I buy you a drink. 
Woman on street: I would say my best pickup line is hello, hi.
Woman on street: Hey have we met before?
Man on street: I don’t really have a pickup line, so I guess it would be hello, hey how are you doing?
Man on street: My best pickup line would be to walk up to a girl and say hopefully we can get together later, have a little chat and then some sex maybe, see how the night goes. 
Andrea Syrtash: A party is a great place to meet someone, or to meet someone who knows someone for you. The atmosphere at a party is generally festive. And people know they are there to celebrate, reunite with old friends, and meet new people. That is where you step in; you are going to be the guest who lights up the room. Engaging, approachable, friendly, always smiling, you are the new guy or gal people will want to meet. 
One of my biggest tips on how to stand out at a party is to let others impress you. That is the first do on how to make a good impression with someone you are interested in. Be curious and ask questions. No need to grill your crush on her resume, but few specific questions will more likely open up the conversation and keep your crush engaged. 
Don’t scan the room while the object of your affection is talking. Learn from our friend president Bill Clinton, who is known to make every person in the room, feel like the most important person in the room. Focus, do recruit a fun wingman or wing woman if you are allowed to bring a guest to the party. This will make it easier to meet people.
Don’t arrive fashionably late if you are attending the party solo. Your best bet is to get there on the earlier side, so you can meet people who may get swept away later. And another don’t if you attend the party solo. Don’t camp out in the corner with a drink and wait for people to come up to you. You are better off to stand by the food and drink table and meet people there. 
And while we are talking about drinks, do offer to get your crush and his or her friends a cocktail. But don’t get so drunk that you are doing a show that is YouTube worthy. Do fin out your crushes interest so you can bring it up in a conversation later. Or instance if you learn that the guy you like loves to salsa dance, later on in the night you can ask him if he would be up for joining you and a few friends the following week at a salsa club. 
Don’t overstay your welcome if you are chatting with someone you like. You will be more intriguing if you chat for awhile, ask a few question and then move on, for now. And finally do offer to put your crushes coat back on at the end of the night. You can lift her hair when she puts on her jacket; this is a great flirting technique in colder months. 
But don’t offer to take your crushes clothes off in the first hour of meeting. It is great to be sexy and playful, but probably not so great to proposition sex right away. So If I were you I would take out your social calendar and schedule a few upcoming parties you can consider attending, whether it is a fourth of July bbq or a Halloween party. You are likely to make some connections at these parties that will be great for your dating life. So thanks for watching On Dating, and remember even a bad date makes a great story. So get out there and have some fun. Hanks for watching I will see you next time. 


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Episode “Etiquette for dumping”

Andrea Syrtash: There is never a good time to break someone’s heart, but there are certainly better times. Stay tuned for the five don’ts of dumping. I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating. 

What’s the worst way to break up with someone?

Woman on street: The worst way to break up with someone is a text message, very impersonal. 
Man on street: By either email or a text message.
Man on street: Definitely text message, can’t text message.
Woman on street: The worst way to break up with someone is the faze out. 
Man on street: The worst way to break up with someone is right to their face; you want to get away from the situation. 
Woman on street: Probably by email. That is pretty bad.
Man on street: By a text message.
Woman on street: The worst way to break up with someone is definitely in a text message. 
Woman on street: The worst way to break up with someone is either texting or having a friend break up for them. 
Andrea Syrtash: The lamest breakup story I have ever heard, was about a guy who took out his girlfriend for her birthday and as she blew out the birthday candles he joked that she should wish for a new boyfriend, because he sucked. That kicked off their breakup talk. Yeah it is awkward to end something, and you will see there is never a good time or place or moment that feels right to have the talk. But if you have been dating for at least a few months don’t rely on your date to get the message on his or her own. It is simply not considerate. So here is my list of the five don’ts of dumping. 
Number one, after a few month of dating, don’t stop returning calls and disappear cold turkey. And don’t break up on email. Have the courage to end t in person. Number two; don’t break up in a public place, especially your date’s favorite place. You know her she will always associate you with that horrible night and won’t want to go back. 
Number three, timing is everything when it comes to dumping. So don’t break up the night before an important presentation, at a holiday or birthday dinner, or at a family gathering. On the same token, don’t let a future double date plan or that new movie you were going to see together prevent you from ending it. Number four; don’t be like my friend Jen who claims she is just being environmentally friendly when she recycles ex boyfriends who are still in love with her. We all like instant gratification, but the general rule is hooking up with an ex who is still in love with you is not a good idea. 
For one thing you are making it harder on your ex who may still be in love with you and holding on with false hopes. And another thing, you are making it harder on you, because when you meet someone new who you would rather spend time with, you are going o have to break up with your ex all over again. And that’s not fun. 
And finally number five, don’t gossip all about your ex all over town before you end it and after you end it. The world is smaller than you think and it may come back to haunt you. Here is etiquette when it comes to dumping. Be clear, be considerate, and behave. That means no booty calls after you have broken your ex’s heart. Thanks for watching On Dating. And remember even a bad date makes a great story, thanks for watching and I will see you next time. 


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Episode “Gift guide for dating”

Andrea Syrtash: Giving a gift is a very nice gesture. And in dating it can be appreciated o totally freak someone out. Today I will be sharing some gift giving ideas whether have been dating for a month or a year. I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating. 
What is the best gift a date has ever given you?
Woman on street: The best gift a date has ever given me was a dozen roses. 
Man on street: I married the last girl I dated so that would be my two kids. 
Woman on street: The best gift a date has ever given me is a pair of tube socks.
Man on street: Offering to chip in on drinks after the date.
Woman on street: A free metro card to make it to the date on time. 
Woman on street: Flowers, I mean classic, traditional, everybody likes it. 
Andrea Syrtash: We have all heard it’s the thought that counts when it comes to giving a gift. Unfortunately this is not totally true in dating. Spending tons of money on lavish gifts and exotic trips and jewelry may not work in your favor when you just started to date someone. 
For one thing you are setting the bar very high for heightened experiences, and it may be hard to keep up this lifestyle.  And another thing, you may actually turn people off who aren’t sure I you are the person for them. So here are a few thoughts of gifts to give at every stage of your relationship. 
During the first one to three months of a relationship; so you have an inside joke between you? Work with this theme in your gift. Ye old faithful flowers or chocolates work well at t beginning of dating a new person. You can get gourmet chocolates or extra special flowers. No need to make it generic. Buy a book based on something you have talked about. If you have spent significant time together write up a gift certificate for a sexy service, performed by you. 
If you have been dating for six months or more, make up a modern mix tape for your date, by gifting songs on ITunes. Frame a good photo of a memorable date together. Just don’t do his before the six month mark. For a woman inexpensive jewelry like earrings may work well. For a guy who loves to fix things, buy him some tools. Sports or concert tickets for a future event are a sweet gesture. Plan an evening at a local B&B. 
Ironically when we have been with someone over a year, we may not spend the most time picking the perfect gift. Figuring we are in with the person, but this is a time when you should really woo and share something special. Or if you have been dating for a year or more, book a romantic getaway. At this point it is ok to get your partner a gif of jewelry or electronics. Once you have been together for awhile a gift of clothing or handbag is nice. Assuming you know our partners taste. Hire a chef to come o your house and cook a romantic meal. 
You know each other well at this point, so make your love very personal. For instance if he ha been stressed at work, put together a nice relaxation package. And if she is interested in photography, a new camera is a great gift. 
Most people appreciate a nice and thoughtful gift, especially from someone hey really like. It doesn’t matter how much money you spend, but chose your gift wisely because it will send a message. Thanks for watching On Dating, and remember even a bad date makes a great story, so get out there and have some fun. Thanks for watching, I will see you next time. 


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Episode “Niche Dating sites”

Andrea Syrtash: Most of us have heard of the top ten dating sites. But how many of us have considered joining a site like farmersonly.com? Didn’t think so, niche sites are on the rise and today we will examine a few. Not just for your education but also for your entertainment. I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating. 
What is the weirdest place a date has ever taken you?
Man on street: The weirdest place a date has taken me to is believe it or not the George Washington bridge. I don’t know how we got their but it was great. 
Man on street: The space needle. 
Man on street: Fishing in mud hole. Has to be the weirdest. 
Man on street: The weirdest place I have ever gone on a date would be a amusement park. 
Woman on street: Their house for dinner was the weirdest place. 
Man on street: Going to the horse races. 
Woman on street: I would say a parking lot.
Andrea Syrtash: Grandma always said there is a lid for every pot. I wonder if granny knew h some o us would be looking for a match in communities like gothicmatch.com. With over fifteen hundred dating sites. There is literally something for everyone. I often say that niche sites are a great way to home in on what’s important to you. And to connect with others who share your passion. 
My favorite niche site his week, animal attraction.com, must love dogs.  Guess for some people it I a turn on to see a photo of a shirtless man French kissing his dog Oscar. It made me a little squeamish, on this dating site for lovers you can search by the usual. Location, gender, and you can search by dog, cat, fish horse, reptile or other. What other could possibly mean in any urban area is beyond me. Goat, turtle, salamander perhaps. Or is that a reptile. I clearly couldn’t date on this site. 
Trekpassions.com, Spokiers and special hellos, that is hot for people on trekpassion.com. This site has a free sci-fi chat for self proclaimed trekaholics, and plenty of discussion boards on doctor Who. One guys profile he says there is nothing sexier then a gal dressed up for a comic book convention. Enough said.
Bigcupid.com I love this site. My fried mike use say bones are for dogs, omen should have curves. Had he only knew abut bigcupid.com.  With over a hundred million Americans classified as overweight by the American obesity association. The creators of this site were on to something.  Check out all the BBW, big beautiful women, and the BHM, big handsome men, on bigcupid.com. 
Farmersonly.com, lots of cowboy hats on this site and lots to talk about cattle. In one woman’s profile she proudly exclaims that she lives with a bunch of wild critters. I do to but I live in New York city and that’s not really my choice. The tagline on farmersonly.com is that city folks just don’t get it. Probably true, but one thing I did get is that people with good old fashion country value may find their match here. 
And gk2gk.com, I love that the site has the top ten reasons why geeks make the best catch list. Including number one, geeks don’t cheat. According to geek to geek its because geeks social skills are not developed well enough to support a affair. Well that one y to look at it. And on o the sites tips on how to attract and keep a geek; understand that your geek will have two to four computer monitors on at all times, he or she would prefer to invest in that instead of a nice outfit. And always ask your geek to teach you something, perhaps some world of war craft. I did notice a few familiar faces on this site that I found on Trekpassions.com. I guess the lesson is it is good to join a few sites to increase your odds. 
Joining a niche site is the best way to ensure you are trying many things on the road to dating success. Remember even a bad date makes a great story, so get out there and always have fun.  Thanks for watching On Dating, I am Andrea Syrtash, see you next time. 



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Episode “Best dates on a budget”

Andrea Syrtash: Online daters go on a lot of dates. This can get expensive. Today I will share 20 of my favorite dating ideas for daters that want to have fun without breaking the bank. I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating. 
What is the best budget date?
Man on street:  The best budget date to me is an ice cream cone, and a cup of coffee. 
Woman on street: A good budget date is walking around the city. 
Man on street:  I would say just going out to the park. Going running, working out, I think that’s like a great budget date.
Woman on street: The best budget date would probably be bowling.
Man on street:  We have a quick slice of pizza or something like that. Walk around in maybe like a nice neighborhood, where you don’t have to spend so much money. 
Man on street:  A coffee and a walk. 
Woman on street: Going to the beach, walking on a boardwalk. 
Woman on street: Just walking around, going to a park, kind of things like that. Just walking around you don’t have to spend lots of money. 
Andrea Syrtash: A client once told me he was spending about $200 a week on dates with women who he met online and he never wanted to see again. He was pretty annoyed. Now who knows where he was taking these dates. But one thing is clear, you dot have to spend a lot of money to have a great date. Whether you are interested in romance or adventure, there are plenty of low cost date options. 
I have devised a lit according to your interest:
-outdoors
-adventure
-romance
-culture
First of all it’s always a good idea to give your date a few options and let him or her pick one. You may recall in the predate episode I mention that instead of suggesting coffee. Which is totally unimaginative, unless it is a really cool café, or dinner which is too time consuming and expensive. It is a good idea to let your creativity come through when planning initial dates. 
So get out pen and paper and try out some of these more interesting and more cost efficient dating ideas. 
Try a picnic. Impress your date with a fun dish. Go on a bike ride or walk through the park. And make your destination ice cream. Sports are great for competitive flirting. Shot hoops, play tennis or Frisbee, or rollerblade. Take your dog for a walk or meet at a dog park. And go fly a kite. 
For those of you who like adventure. Buy a guide book for your city and pick a one hour walking tour. Go to the top of the highest building in town, and take a camera to tae some great shots of the views. Pick an eastern cuisine.
-Indian
-Vietnamese
-Chinese
These are generally cheaper dining spots and a little more interesting than the usual fare. Check your local listings for free events and carnivals. And be a tourist for a day. Few of us visit the landmarks that are popular in our hometown.
If you would like to have some romance, meet at a wine bar for a glass of vino. The lighting here is usually great for romance. Pick a cozy café to meet at for dessert. If the weather is warm, rent a rowboat. If it’s cold out try skating. For a romantic evening that wont cost to much, make pizza at home with your date. And take a salsa class together, it s great for skin to skin contact together and it is a lot of fun. 
And finally of those of you who want a date with some culture. Pick a gallery or museum to visit together. Many of thee museums have pay what you can. Check out your cities indie bands. Cover is cheap and it is a great way to support local musicians. See a film at a repertoire movie house, and grab a hot chocolate after. Take advantage of the free live comedy available in almost every city. And try attending a lecture or a workshop that you will both enjoy. 
I am sure you have heard that some of the best things in life are free. Give your date an experience he or she will remember. Be creative, trust me some of the best dates are the most unconventional, and the less expensive ones. Thanks for watching On Dating. And remember, even a bad date makes a great story, so get out there and have fun. I am Andrea Syrtash, see you next time. 

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Episode “When good dates go bad”

Andrea Syrtash: We are joined today by Robin Summers, creator of Idatedonline.com a forum for people to vent, process, and share their online dating disasters. I am Andrea Syrtash and this Is On Dating.
How do you get out of a bad date?
Woman on street: I will like make believe my phone rang, pick it up, and make believe it is an emergency. Like yeah ma, I will be home in a minute. Or ok, oh my god I got to go home, my brother is in the hospital. 
Man on street:  The best way to get out of a bad date is just to be honest.
Woman on street: It’s a dear, dear friend’s birthday and you have a party to go to.
Man on street: Usually I just make something up and say, you know hey o got to run something has com up and I can’t stick around, sorry about that.
Woman on street: The easiest way to get out of a bad date is just to say that, you know, it’s over.
Andrea Syrtash: After a number of bizarre online dates, Robin summers realized he is not alone, his friends started coming out with their online dating disasters. And robin realized there was a need for a support group. Or a least a forum for people to share there best and worse dating stories. Idatedonline.com was born. Welcome Robin.
Robin Summers: Thank, you.
Andrea Syrtash: So Idatedonline.com, why do you think the site is so popular?
Robin Summers: Well everybody needs a place to commiserate. One reason I think it is so popular is that we are obsessed with other peoples realities. We see that on TV all night long, every night. We see al different kinds of reality based shows. This is just another manifestation of that. 
Andrea Syrtash: Yeah, right. Do you have some stories you can share with us on some of those best worse dating stories?
Robin Summers: One common thread is the people misrepresent themselves. Because everybody looks god on paper people often put pictures that might have been six years ago when they were backpacking Europe and they were in the best shape of their life. And then you get to meet them and they look completely different.
Along those lines, one poster shared a story about a guy that she met that looked absolutely nothing like his picture. He had a full head of hair and in real life that was not exactly the reality. 
Andrea Syrtash: So I know this isn’t a dating site. But I imagine some people want to meet each other, who read each other post.  Does that ever happen?
Robin Summers: Sure it can because of the organic way that the site is constantly evolving. One of the directions it might take is that people might start to put links after their stories to there individual dating pages that show their vitals. Maybe somebody will find a witty write and maybe find somebody they get along with.
Andrea Syrtash: I like that their vitals. 
Robin Summers: There you go.  Well that’s what we are talking about, the specifics of a person. They do, everyone does look good on paper. 
Andrea Syrtash: Well very cool, I am going to check out your site and thank you so much for being here. 
Robin Summers: Thank you for having me. 
Andrea Syrtash: The reality is bad dates happen to good people. May as well share them and post your own stories. So check out Idatedonline.com, because his site reminds us that even bad date makes a great story. So get out there and always have fun. Thanks for watching On Dating, I am Andrea Syrtash, see you next time.

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Episode “FindingyourmateOnline.com”

Andrea Syrtash: According to today’s guest finding your date online is easy. As long as you follow some of their true and tested strategies, stay tuned. I am Andrea Syrtash and this is On Dating. 
Do you think you can find your true love online?
Woman on street: It is very difficult for me to believe that I could find a true love online, on the net or whatsoever. 
Woman on street: I think you can find true love anywhere if you are looking for it. 
Woman on street: I highly doubt it, it’s not possible. Because you don’t know who’s out there, who you are meeting.
Man on street: I th